Like Laurie Ruettimann advised in her book I advocate for committing to doing what makes you happy every week.
There’s a stigma attached to isolating in your bedroom when you have a mental illness. Besides that it’s not healthy to self-isolate. Isolation can breed illness and cause paranoia.
The difference is that when you’re in recovery and have a job or are otherwise active it can make sense to consciously choose to take a break from the demands outside your doorstep.
To preserve your sanity it’s imperative [and it’s possible] to achieve a work-life balance. You can have an “outdoor-indoor” equilibrium.
For some time now I’ve been engaged in the Italian practice of dolce far niente that is “the sweetness of doing nothing.”
For the most part I’m devoting time to my job and to publishing Working Assets the book. It’s akin to going into the woodshed by taking time to be alone in a room to practice and perfect the musical piece you’re playing.
After the challenges everyone of us has faced in 2020 it’s true that going into the woodshed can be an act of ameliorating our health. People who are in a plateau or in the woodshed can go on to recover and achieve things.
Trying to do herculean feats right now might not be possible for most of us. I recommend practicing the art of doing nothing when on some days you need to rest and recharge your batteries.
Rest and recreation can boost a person’s mood. This can give you the confidence to restart a major life activity refreshed and ready to go.
Giving ourselves the gift of chilling out is not a luxury–it’s an act of self-preservation. You will be a better parent or better friend to yourself or better partner after this time off.
In the above book Paolo Gallo gives up-to-date tactics for finding a job on your terms.
He is Italian–which is inspiring to me as my heritage is Italian too.
The prime benefit of reading this book is knowing what questions to ask on a job interview. Gallo like Laurie Ruettiman in her book I reviewed too thinks you don’t have to wind up in a truly atrocious work environment.
By grilling the interviewer with poise you’ll be better able to uncover the true relationship dynamics on a future job.
I’ll end here with this quick and easy tip: Google “interview questions to ask employer.” You’ll find loads of probing questions to ask so that you can arm yourself with vital information.
The 1990s are gone. Heck we won’t see the early 2000s again either.
Today searching for a job and going on interviews is a different game. To level the playing field so you can achieve a “work-life balance” I’ll offer ideas in the coming blog entries.
To enjoy peace and harmony on the job and in your life setting boundaries is a must.
In my life I preserve my energy for the essential tasks outside of my job. On the job I think you should prioritize your functions too. Why spend 5 hours on a task that will result in minimal benefit for your supervisor or business? This might rightly require only a half hour or one hour tops.
Doing the right job is more vital than doing the job right.
In the 1990s there was this slogan: “GIGO.” It was shorthand for “Garbage in, garbage out.”
Finding the job where you feel like you’re making a difference is the key. If you can’t see how your work improves your customer’s lives or makes society better in some way: I say all hope is not lost.
In the next blog entry I’ll review a book I read two weeks ago: The Compass and the Radar by Paolo Gallo. He’s on to something when he talks in the guide about building a rewarding career while remaining true to yourself.
Whatever you do on your job it’s imperative to enjoy life outside of your job. That is the best way to live in peace and harmony.
In coming blog entries I’ll talk about the old-age myth of finding a work-life balance. It isn’t a myth. This can be done.
Read the book above. You can check it out of the library should you not be able to buy it.
I recommend the book because long before I read it last week I’d been doing the things the author told readers to do.
One controversial thing that Ruettimann tells workers to do is to be Slackers on the job. How so? Not to break your back at work where you’ll wind up stressed.
Does any of us really want to be popping pills and slurping Frappuccinos to get by every day?
This is where it pays to research yourself and explore careers that are in sync with your personality.
My goal is to publish the book Working Assets: A Career Guide for Peers this summer 2021. It has competitive information for finding and succeeding at a job when you live in recovery.
The trick to being happy and healthy is to have a balanced life. I call this living “a full and robust life.” In your after-hours and on the weekend that’s when it’s imperative that you do what you love.
If you ask me no one should be doing more than a half hour of overtime every day at our jobs. Finding the job that doesn’t require overtime is the golden key to unlocking the ideal balance.
Most workers in corporate offices won’t get more than a 3 percent raise every year. Or 2 percent like milk. While the CEOs earn millions.
How to fight this injustice? Show up to your job on your own terms. Live that full and robust life outside of your day job.
Read Betting on You to find out how you can win the battle of the bulge–of your overstuffed briefcase and ballooning midsection.
There’s a better way than passively accepting the status quo on a job.
Long before I read this Laurie Ruettimann book I too had become a Slacker to preserve my sanity.
In the coming blog entry I’ll talk about my own strategies for achieving peace and harmony.
Setting up office space in your home is one thing. Showing up to your desk or dining table is another.
As hard as it can be I think you should make the effort to dress up. Wearing pajamas all day can put you in a depressed mood.
The question is: What comes first? Do you remain in your night clothes because you’re depressed? Or does wearing p.j.s flatten your mood?
Either way acting kinder to yourself is the way to go. Set 9:00 a.m. as the cut-off time. By this time in the morning try to be dressed in day clothes. Go easy on yourself on the days it takes you longer to get going.
I recommend writing entries in a grateful journal to record things you’re grateful for. Alternate these entries with writing 5 things that make you happy. A study reveals that keeping this kind of journal can boost a person’s mood.
OK–so you might not want to wear a suit to your home “office.” That’s OK. I recommend splurging on the Dressing Well Virtual Styling service. It costs you, yet the consultant can send you links to clothing items you can buy online for this “new normal” WFH scenario.
In the coming blog entry I’m going to talk about a cutting-edge book I read last week. Reading this book can infuse those of us stuck in dreary jobs with optimism and give us a clear path to freedom.