I’ve written elsewhere that you can use your pain as the catalyst for figuring out your life’s purpose.
In one section of a chapter in Working Assets I talk about opting to have a purpose-driven life.
People who exert their time energy and labor on “Keeping Up with the Joneses” are less happy. They go into debt buying things that make them appear rich.
In the Andrew Hallam book Balance: How to Invest and Spend for Happiness, Health, and Wealth he talks about the four quadrants of success:
Having enough money.
Maintaining strong relationships (with yourself and with others).
Maximizing your physical and emotional health.
Living with a sense of purpose.
It’s living with a sense of purpose that is key to flourishing in recovery.
I recommend you buy Balance to have on hand. It’s one of the great personal finance books.
Whether a person can hold a full-time job or not the difference is in doing things that give you joy every day.
One person might bake a cake. Another person might ride a skateboard.
I’ve come to redefine recovery not as only possible when a person returns to having a normal life.
Hello–I worked in corporate insurance offices in the 1990s and wasn’t thriving. Even though I technically recovered.
My purpose as I see it that gets me going is to advance my vision of recovery in two ways:
From whatever illness or distress or trauma is in a person’s life. In whatever guise recovery comes to them as.
Healing is possible and there’s hope for healing.
I’m fond of using the skateboarding analogy as a recovery lifestyle that could suit a person.
In Working Assets I also make the case for doing volunteer work when you can’t work at paid employment.
In my view we must expand the definition of what constitutes recovery.
If you ask me the four quadrants of success should be achievable for everyone regardless of what we’re in recovery from.
This is because It’s Not About the Money. It’s Not About Acquiring Material Things.
Plain and simple recovery is about finding what gives us joy and going and doing that.
On and off the job.
Finding the job that is the right fit can enable a person to recover.