Today I value as I did when I was a disc jockey in the 1980s having the radiant defiance to be unusual.
I’ve read the book The Next Millionaire Next Door shown above. Those of us who are financially well-off have what’s called “social indifference.”
I’ve coined the term “radiant defiance.”
Individuals who have social indifference to the trappings of acting rich become millionaires.
“Keeping up with the Joneses” is the route to a miserable life of mounting debt.
The millionaires next door become well-off through hard work, discipline, conscientiousness, and integrity.
They don’t live in luxury homes in upscale neighborhoods. They don’t drive a Mercedes Benz.
These millionaires are frugal as a rule.
Why am I writing about this? It’s to get readers to value doing your own thing, not what others are doing.
Millionaires don’t follow the crowd. They don’t (and I don’t either) spend time on social media or watching TV. They don’t spend hours getting worked up over political issues.
In short, the millionaires next door act differently from how most people live.
The point is that I urge readers to reject having what constitutes success in America–the mindset of earning more and more money to be able to buy material goods that make you appear rich.
Real millionaires don’t succumb to “affluenza” the disease of consumerism.
Nor does where you start out in life determine how far you can go. It’s the habits you adopt along the way that determine whether you succeed or fail.
In the book shown above the authors corroborated that individuals who have disabilities often go into business for themselves and do quite well at this.
To wit: your SAT score and college GPA don’t correlate with whether you’ll be successful later in life. See under my Book Reviews category my review of Late Bloomers, which also denounced the early “conveyor belt” of SAT scores and elite colleges as being predictors of future achievement.
It’s commonly called social indifference. I call having the guts to act true to yourself radiant defiance.
Being normal isn’t what it’s cracked up to be. What makes you different gives you an advantage.
I’ll end here with one thing the millionaires next door share:
They chose a career that is the right fit with their personality. They saw a need in the market and capitalized on filling that need.
Coming up in the next blog entry I’ll talk about my own work history to give readers insight into how acting with radiant defiance can help you succeed in any goal..